"Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive!"
-Sir Walter Scott
Over recent weeks I've had quite a few incentives to write this article and interestingly not from magicians but from real people who live the real world. I'm going to discuss the practice of lying - possibly the downfall of most magicians, and quite a few human beings as well. I hope it gives you something to think about.
Just yesterday, I spent the day with a good friend of mine and the conversation turned to how we are perceived by others. I told her that I believe people recognise her as a beautiful, fun and intelligent human being and she immediately frowned and asked, "Why are you lying?" The truth is, I wasn't. She is all of that and more, but that really isn't the point. The real goods are this; what would I have achieved by not being honest to her? Nothing. And that's the entire point of lying - it's simply a step backwards instead of forwards.
So far this all sounds as if I'm looking to start a new religion...what does all of this actually have to do with magic? I think there are two main areas that should be discussed; what we say and do and how the audience perceive what we say and do. Lets take them one step at a time...
When I perform for an audience I like to share a part of my life with them and afterwards many spectators speak to me as if they're a friend and have known me for a long time; my performance almost seems like a conversation (although the performer (i.e. me) should have an edge of authority). I would feel extremely fraudulent if they befriended someone that wasn't actually me but some kind of cheeky character or perhaps a caricature of a magician. That's not the Fredrick McValentine that my friends know, so why should anyone else feel that they have met a different person?
My performance character is the same person as my friends know for most of the time. Just like everyone else, I get in different moods and mindsets, but the fun and almost mysterious Fredrick comes out to play in my performances and as often as possible in my real life. Of course, audiences also accept obvious character acts since they understand and know in the back of their minds that just like in a play, the character isn't real. I like to let the audience meet the real me, so simply steer away from being an actor playing the part of a magician.
Lying about your character is a very large-scale example to prove my point. It's also an extremely important one. Just as important though are those minor, white lies that magicians seem to tell because, um, well...it's their job. If you learn one thing from this article, please let it be this - your job is to amaze your audience and not lie to them. Lying to our audience has got us into all sorts of trouble in the history of magic so I purpose that instead of lying we simply don't say anything! Brother John Hamman used to say that instead of talking too much, just let the audience work out for their selves as they will believe their own thoughts a lot more than they believe you.
Although its very extreme I try not to even tell an audience, "And I place your card into the center of the deck." Sometimes I have to, but I try to steer away from it whenever possible. The first reason is that they already know that the card is going into the centre of the deck since they can see you placing it there. The second reason is quite simple - you act quite a lot differently when you lie to someone.
Anyone who has studied NLP will understand about eye accessing cues, which are often used to identify remembered from imagined data. I won't go into detail here, since a study of almost all NLP courses will reveal a lot of information. For those who want a brief outline that is even associated with magic, take a peak at Derren Brown's Pure Effect book.
For a quick experiment, try asking a friend to picture a blue triangle inside a maroon square and then ask them to picture the colour of a mutual friend's hair. Traditionally, when asked to picture two shapes, their eyes will move up and to the right since they are forced to construct the image for their selves. In the second question they have to remember an image so will look up and to the left.
Anyway, I digress. Of real importance is that you change as a person when you tell a lie. For those who have trouble fooling their friends and family, this is the reason - because they know you so well that they can identify when you're not being totally truthful.